Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Missing

"I began to understand something. There's no one to blame. There's nothing to blame. There shouldn't even be a need to question. He had his choices and i had mine. We all have our freedom to decide. We all have our prefence to experience. I've forgiven him for leaving. I've forgiven myself for staying, and i've forgiven life for creating this drama of birth and death."

My bestfriend lost her uncle today, and i felt really sad about it. But overall, there must be a time for saying goodbye to the one you loved. Someday. 

From my phone, 
Otw to my grandma's house 
14:02 
Xx

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Autumn Wipe Out!

Yeayyyyyyyyyyyyy! finally, autumn is coming, and #autumnwipeout is going to held soon!

mark your time, Saturday, 22 December 2012 at Ninotchka:)) 


there will be garage sale and the items are all amazing(and cheap too).
you can eat the 'goodfoods' while you are see the garage items(lava cake, chiken cordon bleu, macaroons are so recommended) the taste are sooooo great and you gonna love the decorations inside the cafe. 
Sonia Eryka(as the owner) also invite another bloggers to sell their own second items too:))
make sure to noted the date and don't get lost(the streets are a little bit tricky)
ohya, their also give you free ginger bread cookies for this month(it's because christmas!)

ninotchka featured on femina magazine

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precious lessons.

YEAYYYYYYYYYYYYY! 
it's December and only a week before christmas:)) 
and it's been a long time since my last post(on august) 
hmm, many things happened(very many!)
disini gue cuma pengen cerita beberapa hal, lebih tepatnya pelajaran yang udah gue dapet belakangan ini, dan gue harap dari pengalaman gue, bisa jadi pelajaran buat kalian.

1. selfish
gue yakin(banget!) pernah disatu saat kita semua tuh marah dan ngerasa kalo orang lain tuh EGOISSSSSSSSSSSS banget. oke mungkin bener, lawan bicara/debat kita emang egois banget. tapi coba deh, just take some time, think and realize that everyone must have their own positive and negative side. sampe kapan sih kita cuma liat sisi negative orang doang, mau selamanya gak punya temen?:p jadi coba deh berfikir maju dan tentunya jangan mikirin diri sendiri doang, diri kita juga punya kelemahan kan?:)) 

2. think positive. 
oke, gue pasti akan selalu ngulang kalimat ini, 'think positive, think positive, think positive!' kalo bisa gue nge-copas dan ngebuat halaman blog gue penuh dengan kalimat ini deh, hahaha. satu pikiran negatif bisa ngancurin 100000 hal positif. Jujur aja, gue juga susah kok mikir positif disaat segalanya negatif, tapi pleaseeeee jangan takutin hal yang belum tentu terjadi, just believe, if it meant to be, it will be.

3.YOLO. [do positive things]
yap! You Only Live Once. gue bukannya gak setuju loh sama lagunya wiz kalifa. yap, kita memang masih muda, dan kita sendiri tau hidup kita cuma 1 kali doang. Tapi coba deh pikir, 'gimana ya kalo misalkan hidup gue dipenuhin sama hal-hal positif?' selain itu sehat buat mental kita, itu juga tambahin upah kita di surga. Gak usah yang ribet-ribet kok! coba dari hal-hal kecil, jangan beli hal-hal karna napsu semata doang, misalnya. Gue gak bilang kalo kita gak boleh gosipin orang, ngatain orang dll. Karna itu susah(dan gue juga ga bisa!hahaha) tapi coba dari hal-hal kecil. yaaa, many things outside yang lu gak perhatiin dan butuhin kalian. so please, open your eyes and start to loving and caring the others.


4. above all, don't EVER lose hope. 
pernah gak sih, denger pepatah yang ngomong: 'when the world says, 'give up', hope whispered, 'try it one more time..' yap! maka itu disini gue bilang jangan pernah hilang harapan. ya emang sih kadang pas kita gagal dan jatuh dari sesuatu kita kecewa, bahkan nyerah. Yakali, masa kalian nyoba sesuatu tapi langsung WOW tanpa ada kegagalan apapun? tapi coba deh percaya and try it one more time. karena kita gak tau kan, apa yang akan terjadi nanti?:)) 'she believed she could, so she did'